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John Gottman on Trust and Betrayal
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John Gottman on Trust and Betrayal
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Dr. John Gottman describes trust as being built in “sliding door” moments, those everyday decisions where you choose to turn toward your partner or pull away. In a healthy, supportive relationship, partners choose each other every day, fostering love and intentionally nurturing their connection. This foundation is a key pillar of The Gottman Institute’s Sound Relationship House. What does commitment mean to you? ⁠ https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-does-trust-and-commitment-look-like-in-a-relatio
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Trust and commitment are built in everyday choices. Dr. John Gottman calls this “thinking for two,” meaning we make decisions with our partner in mind, even when they are not in the room. Not just “what do I want?” but “how does this affect us?” Our blog breaks down what trust and commitment can actually look like in real life, including cherishing your partner, following through, and choosing actions that protect the relationship day to day. Read it here: https://bit.ly/3YHDyiZ | The Gottman In
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After 50 years studying relationships, John Gottman says that the "secret to loyalty in a relationship" includes considering yourself lucky to be with your partner. He shares more about the habit he's developed to counteract the stresses of a busy life together in this clip. | The Gottman Institute
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Dr. John Gottman calls bids for connection the small, everyday moments that build or break a relationship. A shared laugh, a gentle touch, even a simple question or pointing out a bird. These are all ways we seek connection with our partners. The key? How we respond. Turning toward bids strengthens trust and intimacy, while turning away can create distance over time. Want to learn how to recognize and respond to bids for connection? Watch the full video on our youtube channel. https://youtu.be/o
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We asked Dr. John Gottman how to respect our parents without repeating the parts of their relationship that were painful or unhealthy. His answer was simple Respect is not imitation. You can honor the people who raised you without copying their patterns. You can appreciate their effort, acknowledge their humanity, and still choose a new way of relating, loving, or parenting. Breaking a cycle does not mean blaming your parents. It means building something better with the tools they did not have.
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